What To Do If You're Alone On Valentine's Day

Just the other day I posted up an article for women and gave them 5 signs to tell if they are number one in their mans life on Valentine's Day. If you missed out on that post, you can check it out when you click (here).

Now, if you have come to the conclusion that you are not number one in your mans life on Valentine's Day then I'm going to tell you not to worry. Who wants to be second place when you can be number one? And number one is you right? If you don't believe that you are number one in your life then no one else will. Believe me on that!

So with that said, here are 5 things you can do for yourself and by yourself on Valentine's Day if you are not with anyone special courtesy of author Maxwell Billieon.....and you can find out what that is when you click on the "Read More" button below:



1. GET A SELF-UPGRADE
Nothing feels better than starting over. It helps you feel free and reinvigorates the spirit! Do something drastic on Valentines Day – sure, you can get a facial, manicure or massage, but why not go big? Change your hair to that cut or color you never thought you could pull-off; or buy yourself a new outfit that makes you look like the woman you really are inside. If you’re feeling like you really want to go there, opt for a tattoo. Nothing say’s, “check out the new me” like a little (or big) tattoo. Remember, who you are, is often hidden by how you feel, so let it all hang out and get an upgrade!

2. TAKE A STAY-CATION
Valentines Day comes and goes so quickly that you may not have time to really get away. So use one of those ignored work vacation days to get some local inner-peace. You don’t need to go to an expensive hotel; you can do it right in your own city, town or home. Make a list of three things that you always wanted to do but never get the chance to, and plan your day to enjoy them all. After all, it’s called Valentines “Day”, so use the day to do you!

3. GET SOME FOOD FOR THOUGHT
Write down your favorite place in the city…if you don’t have one, jump on the internet and do a search for “great places to read a book” in your city or town’s name. Then, grab your favorite book and take it there to relax and enjoy some food-for-thought. If you learn one thing from your personal V-Day, let it be that you learned something new.

4. DO THE GIRL THING
So many women take being alone on Valentines Day as a badge of shame. But there is absolutely no shame in it. Like the saying goes, “Strength comes in numbers”. So get the girls together and you’ll find that together you help each other build inner-strength. And you don’t have to stay at home, do something different. Hit a matinee or an afternoon tea…then when nighttime arrives, throw on your new dress and hit the town. There are lots of eligible men out on Valentines night and you never know, it just might end up being your day after all.

5. FALL IN LOVE (WITH YOURSELF)
So much focus is placed on the relationship tie-in to V-Day, that we forget it’s a day about love. So, who better to love on Valentines than yourself? Why wait for someone else to take you out to a movie, lunch or dinner? Treat yourself to your favorite fun or romantic thing to do. Yes, you can have some private romance time and that even means intimacy. After all, if you don’t enjoy yourself, then you can’t expect someone else to know how too.  Have a Happy Valentines Day and remember that taking a personal V-Day is all about growth. It’s your opportunity to get close to the most important person in your life – yourself!

I hope you've enjoyed the little bits of information I've given and if you find yourself by yourself this Valentine's Day then just focus on you and you will be alright! ;-)